Friday, September 19, 2014


  • Ode to Singlehood:
  • As I saw the empty coffee bag in the back of my car, a chill went up my spine as I reveled in the fact that I can buy less coffee now.
  • From there, it also occurred to me that I won't have to miss random days at the gym in order to play proper host over morning coffee (which there will now be more of)
  • Then my mind went on to realize I won't have to wash my sheets every week anymore
  • And the freedom I feel knowing I no longer have to try to set aside part of my weekend and can book the muthalivin shit out of it!
  • I will get better night's sleeps
  • My cat feels better now that I'm only having coffee with him.
  • I can explore travel!
  • And this gratitude is just from over one week of dating! 
  • Thinking ahead, I avoided finding out things he lied about (though already had suspicions), living with his moods, helping him get started in AA (which is inevitable), propping him up, and OMG I might have had to COOK at some point!! WOW am I happy to be SINGLE!!!